How to become a dynamic person and break out of your shell.

How to break out of your shell and become a dynamic person.
You can not be shy in today's society.  Being shy period is bad. It creates bad energy.
I was shy. Why or how does one become shy.   Several reasons, Our enviroment has a lot to do with our behavioral patterns. My parents I remeber always told  me to be auiet at dinner. Just eat and be quiet they would say. They also told me many times,, do not talk to strangers or grown ups. do not talk to your teacher, or just plain be quiet.
Some more damaging words parents tell us, do not cross the street with out asking us.
This is ok , but at age 12.. Then all the rules. do not eat meat with dairy , do not sleep
with a pillow, do not stare, do not watch tv , do not ask questions, especially about sex.
So one grows up very controlled and afraid to make his or her decisions.
It is not until we realize what controls us , that we wake up. Heh , I am going to think for myself.
I do not need someone thinking for me.  When you realize this, there should be an anger inside you. This is good. It is as the lion in you has woken up after  many years of being dormant.
Wake up!!!!! Wake up!!!!! You must tell yourself over and over again. This is my life.
I am in control. Now you might ask, what do I do now.
Answer, you start to make changes. Here is a good suggestion.
When you talk to people look at them straight in the eyes. Do not for even a split second look in another direction. Here I am. I am powerful,
and I have power over you, you must tell yourself. Stand straight up, talk slowly and clearly
with confidence while you look the person right in the eyes. Very important concept.
Be agressive, take control of the situation. Whatever you do not be hesitant. Be sure
of yourself.  You might say to yourself, well I have bad grammer, I did not go to college
I can not talk well. Not important, Talk, be heard, no matter how bad your language skills are you will be understood.  Do not let people push you around, or intimidate you.
That includes religous leaders, teachers, friends, parents, your boss,  etc.
You are not afraid of anything or anybody, you are like a tank that seeks and destroys.
You have  to live each day as a psyche. Get pumped up both physically and emotionally.
Some of you might say , well I am green , or blue so I have a disadvantage in life.
Wrong!!!! If you think you have a disadvantage then try even  harder,. Create your negative energy into positive. Do not feel sorry for yourself. And learn how to run over people who get in your way. Ignore people who put you down.
     I was so shy I was afraid to talk to anybody. I used to think of myself as an outcast.
I used to think of myself as being, stupid, ugly, and undesirable to women. 
You know I still think of myself as being ugly and not quite as stupid. But so what.
That is me, that is what makes up my person. Who cares!! But I do not think of myself as being undesirable to the opposite sex anymore. Because I like you am a unique person.
And it is your uniqueness that makes you special and attractive to other people.
I am a pianist. And I hid behind the piano a long portion of my life.
And would you believe that now I have become a
show man on the piano, not only do I perform but I tell stories, and jokes, and get involved with my audience. I might not be very funny , but my sense of humor is unique. I have become very relaxed on the stage now. Because I do not think of what some people in the audience will think of me. People will always criticize, especially the ones that are jealous. So every time I go out on stage I feel full of confidence. Because I give my audience all that I have.
I psyche myself up before I perform. And that is what you have to do each day, get psyched, 
because you can do whatever you want to.
This is what my you tube channel is all about. Newamericacd is a mass of positive energy.
Come join us and get psyched.

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